Wednesday, March 12, 2014

Marriage is a compromise... But it is Worth It!

Here I am at the Library during Spring Break, trying to put the finishing touches on my 3 essays.  I want to stay at home, but my hubby is so considerate that he drives me crazy.  Every 20  minutes he sticks his head in the door to ask "Are you ok"?  "You need something to drink".  "You mind if I give you a hug?" " You mind if I give you a kiss?".  I prayed to God for a good man like my Hubby, and he gave him to me.  Now, I just don't know what to do with  him?  Sometimes I want to hit a button and put him on pause like I do the television!!  So when I stay at the Library until 10:00 pm, I feel guilty but accomplished because I get everything done for my classes.
When I get home, the guilt sets in.  I look at my hubby and think..."Wow,  he ate hot dogs again for dinner."  So on my days off and when I leave school early, I fix his favorite foods and put a lot of love of into it!  Sometime when we go fishing.... I let him catch more fish, so that I won't be tempted to add insult to injury by gloating in my usual fashion!
Marriage is about being able to compromise.  My hubby is worth that to me and I know that I am worth that to him!!!!!!
Marriage is a never ending friendship.   I am so blessed that my man is a good person or I don't know how in the world I will do this "Until death do us part!"

Friday, March 7, 2014

Facebook and Me!

Since I have started my journey on the "No Judgment Zone" experience, I realize that Facebook is the biggest Judgment Zone around.  Whenever I have friends that have to use "Unfriend" as a weapon because someone said one thing that they didn't like, I think "Wow, has it really come to this?"  When I post, I post  fearlessly.  I approved the 301 friends that I currently have because I have known them for quite some time, I went to school with them , they are family members, or I have worshipped with them before or present.  I don't approve people I do not know.  So when I post an achievement or a happy moment, I assume I am sharing my information with people that has my best interest at heart.    If you are one of those people that I call a LURKER (A PERSON WHO JUST LOOKS AT POST BUT DON'T EVER HIT LIKE, BUT TALK NEGATIVELY ABOUT WHAT EVERONE ELSE WROTE),  please do not "friend" me or "unfriend" yourself from my page.    Trust and Believe, when you post positive things or you just seem to need a hug, I will find the right words to UPLIFT and BUILD YOU UP!!!!!  Isn't that what life is about?   Isn't that what love is about?  Facebook or any Social Media Sites are what we make them.   So make it Positive... so I can Positively enjoy your friendship while we "Facebook" each other.    Facebook is a verb right?